Simplifying Is Painful

By Leo Babauta

Creating simplicity and focus is anything but easy.

It requires saying no, and in doing so you make others feel rejected. It requires giving up things you love, so you can truly say yes to the most essential.

In the past two weeks, I’ve simplified my work projects, drastically and heart-wrenchingly. To give myself a laser focus.

Last week, I canceled or put on hold four dear projects. It meant having some painful conversations with business partners who were psyched about those projects. Those were some of the hardest conversations I’ve had in recent years.

Today, I further simplified:

• I’ve ended mnmlist, one of the sites I’ve loved creating the most.
• I’ve put Unschoolery on hold, even though I have lots more to say on the topic.
• I stopped studying Spanish, even though I’ve gotten further with that language in the last couple months than I’ve ever gotten with any language (with the possible exception of English).
• I decided to put my programming learning on hold as well, though I did make great progress in January.
• I recently continued my writing for my Guide to Life for My Kids, but am now putting that on hold as well.

Almost none of these projects are dead. They’re just lovingly folded up, to be tucked away in a digital archive for a later revival. It’s not easy, though, putting them in cold storage.

Why am I putting myself (and others) through this kind of pain?

For intense focus.

I’m going to focus on one thing: the creation of my new book, Zen Habits.

If I have 10 different ventures and learning projects, this book won’t have my full focus. It will not be done well. And that will be a disservice to the book, to anyone who might benefit from it, and to myself.

(Note: Zen Habits and Sea Change will still be going strong, because they have always been a testing ground for my best ideas, the ones that are going in the book.)

And so I’m going through pain, and letting go of many things I love, to make one awesome thing. To give myself the opportunity for reinvention.

To put my entire being into one creation, to aim myself unreservedly and with abandon into one spot in the universe.

It’s game time.

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Simplifying Is Painful

By Leo Babauta

Creating simplicity and focus is anything but easy.

It requires saying no, and in doing so you make others feel rejected. It requires giving up things you love, so you can truly say yes to the most essential.

In the past two weeks, I’ve simplified my work projects, drastically and heart-wrenchingly. To give myself a laser focus.

Last week, I canceled or put on hold four dear projects. It meant having some painful conversations with business partners who were psyched about those projects. Those were some of the hardest conversations I’ve had in recent years.

Today, I further simplified:

• I’ve ended mnmlist, one of the sites I’ve loved creating the most.
• I’ve put Unschoolery on hold, even though I have lots more to say on the topic.
• I stopped studying Spanish, even though I’ve gotten further with that language in the last couple months than I’ve ever gotten with any language (with the possible exception of English).
• I decided to put my programming learning on hold as well, though I did make great progress in January.
• I recently continued my writing for my Guide to Life for My Kids, but am now putting that on hold as well.

Almost none of these projects are dead. They’re just lovingly folded up, to be tucked away in a digital archive for a later revival. It’s not easy, though, putting them in cold storage.

Why am I putting myself (and others) through this kind of pain?

For intense focus.

I’m going to focus on one thing: the creation of my new book, Zen Habits.

If I have 10 different ventures and learning projects, this book won’t have my full focus. It will not be done well. And that will be a disservice to the book, to anyone who might benefit from it, and to myself.

(Note: Zen Habits and Sea Change will still be going strong, because they have always been a testing ground for my best ideas, the ones that are going in the book.)

And so I’m going through pain, and letting go of many things I love, to make one awesome thing. To give myself the opportunity for reinvention.

To put my entire being into one creation, to aim myself unreservedly and with abandon into one spot in the universe.

It’s game time.

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Things I’ve Learned Since Simplifying My Wardrobe

By Allison

Since I posted about simplifying my wardrobe, I’ve learned a lot more about my style. When I first started paring down my clothes, I had an idea of who I wanted to be in my mind. On my mood board I had lots of sweaters, blazers, blouses, animal print pants (?), and heels.
Maybe it’s this brutal weather but this winter I learned that I do not like:

• Oxfords (My feet are child-sized and look clunky)
• Blazers (I like feeling restricted)
• Anything lighter than a dark, dark denim.
• HEELS.

But for real on the heels. I have practically lived in my knee-high boots since November. I keep them anyway thinking that I’ll someday wear them.
As spring nears (gosh I hope spring is near) I’m starting to think through my warmer-weather-style. I’m taking a trip to Las Vegas and San Diego this month and I realized I don’t really have anything to wear for that climate. When I purged my closet, a lot of those clothes didn’t make the cut. I want a little more personality than my winter wardrobe…while still making it easy to get dressed in the morning.
While I figure this out, follow along on my Warmer Weather Uniform Pinterest board! Next week I’ll share how I prep for my west coast trip while keeping a budget!
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